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  • Engage with Ethics!  If we don’t, who will?

    Engage with Ethics! If we don’t, who will?

     

    **This is a personal website and reflects my thoughts and convictions. It does not represent any official position held by Youth With A Mission.**

    Technology of all kinds presents us with pressing ethical questions, but we often duck them because they seem too complex for us to understand, let alone provide some guidance. The question of 3-parent children is one of those. Our House of Commons has passed a law allowing it. BUT, it is not too late to help some outstanding people to provide guidelines. My friend and respected Member of the House of Lords, David Alton can explain:

    Earlier this week the House of Commons voted to permit the creation of what some MPs described as genetically modified babies. The full debate and voting list is in Hansard at:  

    http://www.publications.parliament.uk/pa/cm201415/cmhansrd/cm150203/debtext/150203-0002.htm#15020348000001

    Note that among gm-babiesthose who voted against the proposals, on what was a free vote, were the two most senior law officers in the Government, the Lord Chancellor and the Attorney General. Around half the House of Commons voted against or abstained: 128 against and 350 for.

    The House of Commons was given 90 minutes to consider this awesome question – a decision which will alter the genetic make-up of future generations. Just 90 minutes for GM babies – 90 hours for fox hunting. Nye Bevan once said that “politics is the religion of priorities”. What does this say about our priorities?

    On February 24th the Mitochondria Regulations will now be considered in the House of Lords.

    The former Cabinet Minister and Chairman of the Conservative Party Chairman, Lord Deben (John Gummer), with all-party support, has laid a Motion before the Lords urging Peers to consider more carefully, and with much more detailed parliamentary scrutiny,  the safety and legal implications of this decision. He has called on the public to write to Members of the House of Lords asking them to vote for the Motion, which reads as follows:

      Lord Deben to move that this House declines to approve the draft Human Fertilisation and Embryology (Mitochondrial Donation) Regulations 2015 laid before the House on 17 December 2014 and calls on Her Majesty’s Government not to lay new draft regulations until a joint committee of both Houses has been established and has reported on (1) the safety of the procedures permitted by the draft regulations, (2) the compliance of the draft regulations with European Union and domestic law, and (3) the key definitions used in the draft regulations.  

    The Regulations contain two distinct methods of altering germ line genetic identity – spindle transfer and pro-nucleartransfer.

    They both raise questions of legality in international law and both raise safety concerns.

    The second (but not the former) also involves the destruction of at least two and, in some cases as many as ten, human embryos to create the new modified human embryo.

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    During the Commons debate, the Minister, Jane Ellison, was keen to combat the slippery slope argument with the following rejoinder:

    “I looked back at the debates in the House on IVF all those years ago, when some were worried about a slippery slope, and all the safeguards are still in place more than two decades later.”

    Those who used the slippery slope argument back in 1990 did so on the grounds that allowing for the destruction of human embryos in IVF was likely to lead to the commodification of the human embryo, and further abuses to human life.

    Two decades later, around 2 million embryos have been experimented on, destroyed, or otherwise discarded. The 1990 legislation paved the way for the dignity of the human embryo to be defiled with the addition of gametes from other species. And this week, Parliament allowed for the genetic modification of human embryos. If that isn’t evidence of having fallen down a slippery slope, I don’t know what is.

    We have been here before. In 2007, prior to the legalisation of human/animal hybrids, disabled people were told that without that provision, those of us who opposed it, were condemning them to years of suffering. It was a lie. The disabled people who were brought in wheelchairs to lobby Parliament in favour of animal human hybrids were shamelessly manipulated and exploited, cruelly raising false hopes.  Funding agencies subsequently refused to finance the procedure which Parliament was stampeded into authorising. It was bad science and bad ethics. 

    The Warnock Report, which led to the 1990 legislation and paved the way for animal-human embryos, said that “the human embryo should be treated with respect”. Baroness Warnock subsequently said it was hard to see how you were showing respect as you flushed the human embryos down the drain. Welcome to Dystopia.

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  • What to do with Paedophiles

    What to do with Paedophiles

     

    **This is a personal website and reflects my thoughts and convictions. It does not represent any official position held by Youth With A Mission.**

    Stories of sexual abuse of children are in the press every day now.  The term covers a very wide range of abuses, from rich and powerful men thinking they can get away with anything, so they manipulate underage teenagers to have sex with them, or at the other end of the scale, deeply warped men (almost always men) who rape toddlers and babies.  Is this deviancy spreading, or are we just more alert to it because the news media are particularly on the lookout for cases of paedophilia?

    It must be a bit of both.  My guess is that rich and powerful men, whose ambition and pride lead them to abandon self-discipline, have been sexual predators in every generation because they think they are too powerful to be held to account. More often than not, they were right.  That is a tragic reality for the countless victims.

    Deviant sexual desires toward children are another matter, and here I think the number of people involved is growing exponentially.  There is an undeniable explanation for my assertion.

    Nearly all paedophiles have been victims as children. That is not to say that every child who is sexually abused is destined to become a paedophile, but many do.  Evidence at trials and my own experience of talking to abusers confirms that nearly all of them have multiple victims and some manage to abuse hundreds.  In light of that, the reason for the explosive growth and the high risk to children today is to be expected, though we fervently wish it were not so.

    A recent short news clip on the BBC addressed the pressing question, “What do we do with the growing number of convicted paedophiles?”  They highlighted a mother and her teenage daughter who are running a “name-and-shame” website and network.  They are deeply concerned about the risk to children when convicted abusers are settled in a neighbourhood without the knowledge of local families.  They want everyone to know when a convicted abuser moves into their neighbourhood, so they can keep their children safe.

    Then they interviewed a convicted abuser who has had a “support and accountability circle” whilst in prison.  He is worth quoting.  “I did it just because I wanted to.  I never thought about the parents or even the child.  I just wanted to, so I did.  Without the circle, I would be released and do it again.  But I would never do that again now.”  They also talked briefly on camera to a member of the circle.  He was a volunteer who cared enough to so something that him cost time and effort.  And he had confidence that the convict was no longer a danger

    The website and network has a “one-size-fits-all” label—paedophile.  It implies that they are all dangerous and need to be publicly exposed and humiliated for life.  This would apply equally to the 18 year-old boy who was sexually intimate with his 17 year-old girlfriend and her family prosecuted him, and to the manipulative, repeat-offending, older man who preys on young school children.  Public exclusion, discrimination and humiliation have no redemptive effect.  It is likely that people so treated will be hardened in their behaviour and find ways to reoffend or commit other crimes as they come to hate their persecutors.

    The support and accountability group treats each person as an individual and, in the context of a relationship that develops over years, can predict with some accuracy whether or not they are still a risk to children.  (We must take into account that no person is completely predictable because we are free will agents.)

    The law is not much help here.  By its nature, law cannot treat people as individuals.  The 18 year old and the abuser with countless child victims both go on the sex-offender register.  By contrast, personal pastoral care, by its very nature approaches each person as they are.

    Can any nation afford to provide a support circle for each sex offender?  Of course not!  Once again we are confronted by the impotence of the law and of government.  We consistently overload government with expectations it can never meet and then we complain about government intrusion and growth with the consequent increase in taxation.

    So there is a great need for people of faith, who have both the heart-motivation to help and the moral framework to help, to develop outreach to the growing number of abused abusers.  By helping them, you could prevent countless other life-destroying crimes. The expertise is available to be acquired, so you don’t have to be an expert to get started.  Are you one of those?

  • Leader, Know Thyself!   

    Leader, Know Thyself!   

    **This is a personal website and reflects my thoughts and convictions. It does not represent any official position held by Youth With A Mission.**

    How well to you know yourself?  You may say “Very well; I live in here”.

    Actually we are all aware that getting to know who we are, what strengths we have, the skills we should develop and what weaknesses we have, is a process;  one that is sometimes fulfilling and exciting, and sometimes discouraging and painful.  It happens intensely for most people during their twenties, with quite a lot of that intensity carrying on into their thirties.  By mid-forties most people should have a pretty good idea of their strengths, weaknesses, abilities and their spiritual gifts.

    Wise people and teams have written numerous books on the importance of discovering what you are good at, and then developing your strengths and gifts until you become highly skilled.  The converse of that is to know your weaknesses, and recognise that you will need others alongside you who have strengths where you are weak.  It was a great help to me when, a few years ago, someone pointed out a serious flaw in our society, and especially our educational processes, which tend to highlight our weaknesses; then we are encouraged to work on improving where we are weakest.

    I was never much good at art.  I just don’t have the fine motor skills to draw paint or sculpt.  No matter how hard I worked at school, I was never going to be an A student in art.  (When Tracey Emin’s “Bed” became famous, I thought I could do that, so perhaps I could be an artist after all.  But that is another subject.)

    I don’t need to be good at art, because other people are and I am designed to work in teams, adding my strengths to the strengths of others and overcoming our weaknesses in the process.  When I need a webpage design I can get someone else to provide it!

    So, none of us can “do it all”, even though some people give the appearance that they can.  We can each focus on our strengths.

    But what happens when a person is sure they have particular strengths, but really they don’t?  Or perhaps they are ambitious to develop skills where they just don’t have the strengths to do that.  I worked with a person who was an outstanding organiser.  She was especially good at managing large events.  She made very difficult tasks seem easy, but she, for some reason, seemed to despise those abilities and rather wanted to be the person up front.  In the end, this outstanding organiser became the senior leader of a small group of people, which gradually declined until nothing was left.

    What do you do when you are convinced you can do something well, or can at least learn to do it well, but others see you don’t have the aptitude, or strengths to do that role well?  This is such a difficult question!

    On the one hand, it is possible that for one reason or other those others don’t like us, or have some prejudice against us, and with malicious intent they seek to tear us down.  Perhaps they are ambitious, and we are seen as a competitor.

    On the other hand, there aren’t many people like that, and we are likely to have others who will speak to us honestly and truthfully. So we should be eager to listen to those who know us and can give us helpful advice about our strengths and weaknesses.

    However, even when good feedback is available there are a few people who just don’t know themselves.  Their own opinion of themselves is seriously at variance with who they really are.  I won’t attempt to analyse why it happens, because I think there are a great many reasons why a person may try to develop in a direction for which they are not equipped.  When it happens, that person can waste years of their life, and end up having failure after failure.   Or at best they will keep working at a role, especially in leadership, that doesn’t suit their strengths.

    Here are some signs that a person might be ambitious in the wrong direction:

    1. You find yourself under tremendous stress, and consistently wondering if you are doing OK.
    2. Quite a number of reasonably trustworthy people try to point you in another direction, or perhaps you sense that they are not fully satisfied with your performance.
    3. If you have reviews, they are not encouraging.
    4. You find yourself fending off those negative reviews or criticisms by attempting to discredit those who produce them.
    5. You find your life is not going in the direction you want, but you genuinely feel it is other people’s fault.
    6. You begin to wonder why it seems that everyone is prejudiced against you.

    Joy Dawson, one of the people who helped lay the foundations of Youth With a Mission, once said that;

    “humility is being willing to be known for who you are”. 

    I believe that; but we often know things about ourselves only as we see then through the eyes of others.  We were actually designed to live in open and honest families and communities.  However, it takes a deep humility to hear and believe others when what they are saying is different than we want to hear.

    The really excellent news is that each of us is designed wonderfully with unique strengths.  As we discover those, sometimes by trusting the eyes of others, we can live joy-filled, productive lives.  We were created for harmonious relationships and when we unselfishly work in our strengths to help others and they compensate for our weaknesses, we function like a healthy body.  And that is the way it is meant to be!

  • Thoughts from a Resident Alien: Blog Intro

    Thoughts from a Resident Alien: Blog Intro

     

    **This is a personal website and reflects my thoughts and convictions. It does not represent any official position held by Youth With A Mission.**

     

    Sometimes, I feel I don’t fit into this world and yet much of the time I feel I belong. Do you know what I mean?

    I am an Alien, in that I belong to a different Kingdom with different values with an emphasis on loving relationships, family life, honesty, diligence, reliability, consumer resistance, good stewardship, quiet reflection, a growing knowledge of the Bible… But I have no real interest in the lives of celebrities. I am often shocked at the callousness of people.  I am sick and tired of scams and frankly disillusioned with just about everything to do with politics. I am concerned about the absence of clear ethics as science and technology change our world at an unprecedented and ever-increasing pace. The love of money seems to drive everyone and everything and yet it is so shallow…

    I am a Resident, in that the whole world still belongs to the One I follow: I am at home in His creation with all its variety and magnificence; His ways still work even in this corrupt society; marriage and family are wonderful gifts that I enjoy to the full; smiles and kind greetings, even to strangers, are often returned with the same. I am constantly surprised at the creativity and explosion of knowledge that enrich my world. Most of all I live with the expectation that this world will be renewed and I will be renewed with it!

    I am one of the relatively few, in the history of life on this earth, who had the privilege to live in a social and physical environment that was virtually crime-free, economically prosperous and stable, with families that stayed together and a vast majority of people who agreed on what good character looked like. Everyone accepted that our sexuality was created for expression within a committed marriage and outside of that it was wrong. No one I knew took drugs and my friends and I grew up knowing nothing about that.  Undoubtedly some people drank too much, but that was behind closed doors and we were largely unaware of that too. Pornography was simply unavailable and no one thought about locking the doors to their houses or cars.

    Such was life in small-town, USA.   Of course, I was just a boy living an ordinary life like so many around me, unaware of my privilege.  That privilege undoubtedly sharpens my awareness of alienation today.  I know how good life can be, even in this imperfect age.    However, it does not just sharpen alienation, it also keeps alive in me a realistic hope that life can be better in this world.

    The Apostle Peter was the one who coined the title phrase for these thoughts.  He wrote to the “resident aliens” of the Roman Empire, first century Christians. The dominant society of Rome had many similarities to today and it is my persistent hope that followers of Jesus can and will think and behave much like believers of the first century. He wrote to them to strengthen them in spirit and in mind.  Perhaps a thought or a report here and there in this weblog might have the same effect.

    I have had another advantage:  for more than 45 years I have had roots in the United Kingdom, but have travelled the world living with, teaching and encouraging young believers in scores of nations. I have driven overland to Afghanistan twice, have organised and led a walk from Germany to Jerusalem, preached to large churches and outdoor crowds of up to 100,000, slept on church floors and in parking lots, led teams of as many as 150 through nations in the Middle East, hunted with a small remote tribe in the Amazon—quite a list, now that I think about it. All those experiences and many more have shaped a perspective that might be different than most others.

    My hopeful expectation for the thoughts, ideas and reports that follow is that they will encourage faith, provoke Christian thinking about important current events and issues and make discipleship possible and practical in our fast-paced and increasingly complex world.   With these lofty aspirations in mind, I hope website will also be enjoyable!